Jeffrey's blog

The Inevitable Outcome of Socialized Parenting...Er, "Education"

First off, I was home schooled, K through 12. It was a wonderful experience, but not the topic of this post. Being raised outside of the public school system, I often see it with "new eyes" and not a little suspicion. The idea that a central authority could trump my parents bothers me. It all comes down what I call unalienable responsibility. Much like unalienable rights, there are some responsibilities that cannot be subsumed by society, government, or other third parties.

Selling My Time; What Am I Worth?

I have a lot of marketable skills. At least I think I do. I've never really sold them on the open market. That is essentially what freelance developers and consultants do. I want to. So what's stopping me?

Plenty.

Persuasion, Correction, and Righteous Influence; a How To

The following is an excerpt from a post to the MormonVeg email list that I helped moderate several years ago. After a major upheaval over post topics, conflicting opinions, and accusations of apostasy (in both directions), I wrote a studied response which really summed up my feelings about righteous influence and persuasion, while respecting an individual's agency.

Originally posted Mon Apr 22, 2002 12:22 am, I have added some links and edited a little here and there to apply the message generally.

Do You Belong In Your Zip Code?

The New York Times recently published a web service showing the movie rental habits, by zip code, of 12 major cities over the past year. The data comes from Netflicks movie rentals for 100 movies. I initially visited the site just to see how they presented the information (very well) and it really made me think. This is a great example of how data is only what you make of it. And, that no matter how unbiased you try to be, just collecting and presenting data induces inacuracy or bias.

Managers, Meet the Maker's Schedule

How do you manage your day-to-day schedule?

A friend just pointed me to this recent post by Paul Graham, about a schedule's impact on the productivity of creative types, "makers" as he calls them.

Free Markets Are Not Usually Fair Markets

During our recent stay in Ethiopia, my wife and I visited "the Merkato"—supposedly the largest outdoor market in Africa. We also shopped in a variety of places during the week and we observed a spectrum of trading methods, prices, and products.

Frugal Families Are Happy Families

One of the best outcomes of this adoption was a unified monetary policy in my family. We saved every penny before spending it. This was extremely challenging, but more rewarding than I expected. I discovered quickly that most of my stress in life relates to money (particularly with someone else spending it). But with a plan in place, stress is reduced, fear is gone, and life is simplified and happier.

Little Fingers, Big Problems; Kids and Computers

Each of my children relates to computers differently. While age plays a part, most of the differences are psychological. Some of my children are puzzlers, thinkers, explorers. Others are quickly frustrated and want others to make tech work for them. But all of them love keyboards, mice, and mischief.

Heads Up! Massive Life Changes on the Way

I'm back! After a two week vacation, I have a lot to share!

While I have avoided publishing much about my family, for privacy reasons, you need to know a few things for the next few posts to make sense. My wife and I just finished adopting two young sisters from Ethiopia. We have several biological children already, but even before we married, my wife brought up adoption as one of her life's goals. We have now finished the long, hard process and I've learned a lot.

Coping with Loss: Tales of a Garbage Can

I am bereft! I am feeling shock, anger, fear, anger, frustration, sadness, shame, and um, anger. This is very rare for me. In fact, the analytical portion of my brain is intrigued by the extent of my emotional reaction to this tragedy. You see, I may have accidentally thrown away $500 worth of library books and media.